14 Things you need to know before Dating a Gemini

If you are thinking of entering in a new relationship, chances are you might want to be acquainted with the person’s likes, dislikes and personality in general. Knowing about the Zodiac sign of your to-be partner is a good way of analyzing the compatibility of your relationship. Geminis are people born between May 21 to June 20 and are known for their double sided nature. Since they are represented by the “Twins”, you might feel like you’re dating two people at the same time when you’re with a Gemini. Difficult to love and having two discrete personalities, Geminis are the best kind of people. They can be curious and social, witty and creative and emotionally unreachable…all at the same time! The most ideal partners for Gemini are Libras, Aquarius and Aries.

They will open up a whole new world in front of you, a world full of contradictions. Below are 14 things you must know before you consider dating, ‘The Twins’!


  1. Beware! Plethora of Impulsiveness Ahead

They are the type to drive you crazy with their impulsiveness and random mood swings. In no time, they will be bored out of their wits from eating at the same spot or from the same mobile phone! They need constant change in their life as stability is not made for them. However, this does not mean that they don’t want consistency in relationships. Their ever impulsive nature will make sure that you never suffer the pangs of boredom.

  1. Social Butterflies (At times)

They love to spend time outside, with family or friends. however, owing to their dual nature it isn’t surprising that you Gemini partner will be wanting to dance at a club in one moment, and the next moment will want to cuddle up on the couch! It may sound confusing but this is exactly what happens when you date a Gemini. You are bound to be faced with confusions, one moment or the other.

  1. Flirtatious…”How you Doing?”

This does not mean they are not loyal or faithful. Geminis are good people by heart and they will remain faithful in relationships. However, they enjoy being praised and being the center of attention. Due to this, Geminis love interacting with people and receiving compliments. This might cause them to flirt a little but at last they will come home and watch your favourite movie with you.

  1. Love to Talk

Be prepared for your first date to seem more or less like an interview if your partner is a Gemini. The twin zodiac loves asking questions. They are great intellectuals and very skilled debaters and conversationalists. Indeed with such fine communication skills, who wouldn’t be willing to talk? It is important to understand that even though they love debating, they don’t desire an argument. Debating and arguments are two different things, and the Gemini likes to keep a debate going as a good, healthy debate. In order to converse with a Gemini, it is important that you know what you are talking about. They love to converse, but they also want their partners to be intelligent enough to take the conversation on a different level.

  1. Don’t get into an Argument

If you love sarcastic people, with a quick wit and a really smart mouth, then the Gemini will be an ideal partner for you. However, since they are so smart, arguments with them can be frustrating. It will be the best if you do your best to refrain from arguments so that you see their bad side as less as possible.

  1. Creative Creatures

Want to give your room a complete new look? Leave it to the Gemini! Want to plan a perfect birthday surprise for your parents? Leave it to the Gemini! Want to have a fun sleepover but don’t know what games to play? Leave it to the Gemini! They love having fun and love to be the mastermind behind all fun plans. The mind of a Gemini is creative in all its sense and when funny ideas are pouring out of their heads, you need not worry about the creativity area in your life! Geminis also enjoy planning surprises since in a way; it makes their own dreams come true as well!

  1. I’ll Be there! Or not…Or I will! WAIT, Can we do this Later?

One frustrating thing about the Gemini is that he/she loves to change plans at the last time or cancel out. It is possible that they don’t change plans or chip it off; they will still be at least 10 minutes late to wherever you were supposed to meet them. Therefore, it is better to make instant plans with them so that they never get the chance to change it or cancel!

  1. Analytical People

Geminis are extremely analytical people and this can at times create problems for them. Since they will most of the times be doubting if this is what the “should” do or if this is what they “should not” do!

  1. Work Hard, Dream Harder!

When compared to an average person, a Gemini will be much more motivated or ambitious. They set short term and long term goals and are pretty critical about themselves if they don’t achieve their goals. This makes them want to date people who are equally ambitious or they will simply be bored of the person!

  1. 1000 Bucks? Not a Problem!

Owing to their spontaneous nature, a Gemini will not think twice before spending money on the most trivial item. They simply get what they want, it may sound insignificant to the other person, but to the Gemini, it perfectly makes sense.

  1. It’s good to be crazy!

Especially Gemini women, they can be all over the place at the same time. Imagine a set of twins constantly fighting for one thing or the other. That’s the kind of battle that is going on in a Gemini almost every time. However there is no need to worry, they will still love you and calm down in not more than 5 minutes.

  1. Naturally Curious

This is a refined of saying that Geminis are always interested in snooping around other people’s business. There are no secrets that can be kept from a Gemini. They never refuse incoming information and will do their best in finding things out.

  1. Internally Conflicted

Emotions rule their world, along with logical thoughts storming their heads. A Gemini will one moment be sitting in an elegant posture, at a fancy dinner. And the next moment you know, they will want to throw their glass at someone who offended them. The “twins” are always facing an internal conflict.


A Gemini wants his/her personal space and adores it the most. They will love you and will give you their time and attention but it is important to realize that there will be times they need their personal space. There will always be one part of a Gemini that remains closed for everyone, even for you!

Geminis indeed seem to be an interesting zodiac, with their quick wit, smart mouth and jolly nature; they will lighten up your day if you feel low! Get ready for a roller coaster ride with this zodiac!

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