A soulmate is a very important person in our lives and the relationship is a very reverent one. It is a relationship that will change our lives, one that comes with a very deep soul attraction, one that is sure to last a lifetime. Your soulmate need not be your romantic partner, he/she can be your friend, a colleague, or one of your own family members. Now comes the much asked question: how do I know whether or not I have met my soulmate? How will I recognise him/ her when I cross paths with them? Let the following list answer and help you to recognise your soulmate when you meet them.
You can easily let them into your world and share it all with them-the good, the bad, the pain and the joy. You can easily bare your mind to them when you wrap up a lot in front of your best friends even. That boundary is open to them where you are fine with letting them see you in your moments of weakness.
14. You respect who they are
“If only he were…”.. This is a line unknown to your relationship if he/she is your soulmate. You do not look for change in that person but love them the way they are with their dose of crazy, naughtiness and love. You do not try to change them into what you want to be but rather embrace the whole package they come with.
13. You can imagine a future together
This is one of the straight answers to knowing if you have found your soulmate. When you dream of yourself 5 years from now, they would be a prominent colour of your life. It is easy to picture them being a part and parcel of your life.
12. Freedom to disagree
We would all have atleast that someone who just cannot digest an opposition to their views or stands. Well if you have really found your soulmate you needn’t have second thoughts about offering a difference in opinion and there is always room for improvement.
11. Works out differences
Not everyone thinks alike and here are bound to b differences in opinion and actions. As long as you do not voice out these differences and sort them, you will never really be happy in any relationship. There are partners who are not receptive to change and so the other just goes by eating his differences without sorting it out with the other, but a soulmate would always be open to change and to talk out differences. It could be as simple says washing the dishes or clothes, but counting the others opinion would mean a lot.
10. The laughter element
Another big sign that you have found your soulmate. When you can have careless laughs together and loads of them, it is a sign that you have found the one meant for you. You laugh out with people you are really comfortable with and have a great chemistry too. The ability to never get bored of the other and to appreciate each other’s presence is amble proof of how you two are meant to be.
9. Easy to be around
There are those around whom you have to be a little conscious and watch your words and actions but there are also those around whom it’s so easy to be. You discover yourself in their presence and all pretensions take the back stage.
8. Bye-bye to jealousy
Do you keep a 3rd eye on whose talks to? Are you comfortable with whom he socialises and his friendship with the other gender and vice versa? If you are comfortable then you are in a stable relationship with your soulmate with no insecurities or misgivings. You give him his space in the social circle for you know this one is as much in love with you as you are with him!
7. They make you a better person
Do not mistake this with trying to change who you are but rather they make you evolve. Their presence and their persona fashions you into being a better person or brings out the best in you, the one who have always wanted to shine out. This is a true mark of a soulmate for as the relationship evolve, the persons too evolve. Does any friends or either of your parent fit the picture in your mind now?
6. They just get you
Sometimes a look or the bleakness in a smile is all they need to get what’s bothering you. Words are few for the love and understanding is deep. They will not judge you and it’s so easy to open up about the best and worst in you for they embrace you as you are and understand you easily, a connection you fail to share with any other.
5. You both have your own quiet
There are moments of fun and sharing and there are also moments of quiet and peace in your relationship. This quiet does not mean an ambulance call to patch up something that’s getting torn away but rather this is a peaceful quiet. You both appreciate it and sometimes mere presence with zero words is what fills the love and space in your relationship.
4. You feel at one with them
They do more than understanding you. When you are in pain, if they can feel your hurt and pain too, keep that one close. We often mark our boundaries as different individuals and while we feel bad for the other’s suffering, if we can instead feel their pain and their joy,and you can read his/her thoughts without the aid of words, then that is a marker of how you both constitute an entity and what bothers the other will bother you.
3. They complete you
It’s like you both fit into each others life perfectly like a jigsaw puzzle. He is not perfect but neither are you. But the both of you together? Yes! He holds what you lack and you hold what he lacks and the perfect symmetry of this makes you both complete and perfect together. He is your balm and you are his.
2. From deep down you know it
You feel it, you know it from within yourself that he is the one. You know it in your gut the other puzzle to complete you is right in front of you. You stop searching for more, you stop wanting more for everything that you have wanted and yearned for, you have it right there for your eyes to see and mind to accept.
1. You marry them. Like everyday
The love and the attraction just doesn’t die. Even if you both have been together for a while the chemistry still shines and so does the flame. You fall in love with him all over again- everyday. You are forever attracted to him even when he or she did not initially fit in your stereotype of your better half, you can look into their eyes and know there lies the answer to everything you’ve wanted.
If you know you have him, do not let go and hold on tight for remember- you found him among billions!